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08-31-2008, 10:09 PM
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I have a complaint.
I came to the site as a guest and was able to view profiles and conversations. I then went to my group and could do the same. The group is supposed to be private. It disturbs me that anyone can read the conversations of members, especially a private group. Please, change this.
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08-31-2008, 11:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Drumbum
I came to the site as a guest and was able to view profiles and conversations. I then went to my group and could do the same. The group is supposed to be private. It disturbs me that anyone can read the conversations of members, especially a private group. Please, change this.
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I'm not sure what you mean "the group is supposed to be private"? What group? and did it give you the option to remain private??
I know there's a disable feature in the edit options feature here for receiving public messages etc... You can disable that thru your control panel/edit options but I'm not sure thats what you're talking about? 
I've been here for awhile and don't have a clue about how someone can have a private group conversation? Maybe it's one of the newer features offered?
Just my 2 cents - if you want to keep something private it might be best to do it via pm or email. Is there a problem? Knowing what I do know about this site, I highly doubt the admin here has access to private conversations via pm or email. Feel free to pm or email me via the link associated with my nic. 
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08-31-2008, 11:28 PM
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The point is guests have access to most, if not all of the site. I'm aware of the option to disable messages on profile. My group is invite only, but I guess that just means you must get an invite to be in it and not private. As I've already said, many other forums have a limit on what guests can view. It doesn't seem to be the case with this one. Forums are for discussion, and having to take it into PM or e-mail kinda defeats the purpose of a forum. Just my two.
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09-01-2008, 11:28 AM
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my 2 cents
I decided to join this forum after i had read the discussions, after seeing how interesting some of the conversations were , i decided i wanted to be a part of that- had it all been 'locked and private' i would not have been able to do that. I don't really see what your complaint is - if you dont want someone to read what you have written, dont post it i guess
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09-01-2008, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Jules100
I decided to join this forum after i had read the discussions, after seeing how interesting some of the conversations were , i decided i wanted to be a part of that- had it all been 'locked and private' i would not have been able to do that. I don't really see what your complaint is - if you dont want someone to read what you have written, dont post it i guess
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DB wasn't talking about the main forums. He was talking about what he thought were "private" groups.
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09-01-2008, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Jules100
I decided to join this forum after i had read the discussions, after seeing how interesting some of the conversations were , i decided i wanted to be a part of that- had it all been 'locked and private' i would not have been able to do that. I don't really see what your complaint is - if you dont want someone to read what you have written, dont post it i guess
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Pretty fiesty for a newbie don't ya think?
Welcome to CL. I hope you have a great time.
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09-01-2008, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Jules100
I decided to join this forum after i had read the discussions, after seeing how interesting some of the conversations were , i decided i wanted to be a part of that- had it all been 'locked and private' i would not have been able to do that. I don't really see what your complaint is - if you dont want someone to read what you have written, dont post it i guess
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Hi Jules, welcome to CL. There are some of us who like to have private groups to keep out some of the spammers. This is what was created and then violated. Please be nice to Drumbum, he is very much liked and respected!
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09-01-2008, 01:45 PM
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Ok, sorry, now I understand - I just went and looked at what y'all were talking about. It appears you have 3 options, Public, Moderated or Invite only when you create a social group. I didn't see any option where you can make a group pivate. I know there are ways an admin can set up a private area if he/she so chooses but this site has never had anything like that before that I'm aware of.
Welcome to CL Jules100. 
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09-01-2008, 02:31 PM
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Ok, sorry, now I understand - I just went and looked at what y'all were talking about. It appears you have 3 options, Public, Moderated or Invite only when you create a social group. I didn't see any option where you can make a group pivate. I know there are ways an admin can set up a private area if he/she so chooses but this site has never had anything like that before that I'm aware of.
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Thanks for the information One2Snoop
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09-01-2008, 04:30 PM
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I decided to join this forum after i had read the discussions, after seeing how interesting some of the conversations were , i decided i wanted to be a part of that- had it all been 'locked and private' i would not have been able to do that. I don't really see what your complaint is - if you dont want someone to read what you have written, dont post it i guess
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welcome Jules/ I can understand what you're saying but this didn't have anything to do with the forums. DB has a valid point in that why create a "group setting" when everyone can read what you post.. He is very well liked and respected here  . Looking forward to reading your posts..~Susie
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09-02-2008, 11:27 AM
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Sorry
I think i have been misunderstood , i wasn't being 'not nice' i was just saying really that by being able to read all the posts when i came to the site made me decide to join
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09-02-2008, 11:34 AM
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I think i have been misunderstood , i wasn't being 'not nice' i was just saying really that by being able to read all the posts when i came to the site made me decide to join
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No need to apologize Jules. We are kinda all laid back and I guess with me being sick my post sounded snooty. If so I do apologize . Welcome to the boards and look forward to posting with you and hearing your thoughts on the different cases. Several of us are under the weather so please excuse us if we may sound not so nice  ..By the way is it ok to add you as a friend..going to do that now~Susie
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09-02-2008, 11:50 AM
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That's great, i have added you as a friend. Loving the boards already and getting stuck in to some of the discussions - hope all of you who are ill at the moment feel better soon
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09-02-2008, 03:00 PM
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That's great, i have added you as a friend. Loving the boards already and getting stuck in to some of the discussions - hope all of you who are ill at the moment feel better soon
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Thank you Jules. I am seriously debating on which is worse having this mess or offfing myself, LOL.....Just kidding but it really is kicking my butt... 
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09-03-2008, 10:48 AM
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What is wrong - is it the flu or something like that ?? Sounds horrible whatever it is
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09-03-2008, 11:06 AM
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What is wrong - is it the flu or something like that ?? Sounds horrible whatever it is
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Not sure Jules. It is in my chest really bad and I have horrible headaches also. Plus some fever. I am taking the most gosh awful tasting cold med so that is even worse, LOL..Thank you for asking..Still considering offing myself, LOL...no sleep and just so tired..But it has to get better right, LOL
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09-03-2008, 11:48 AM
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Not sure Jules. It is in my chest really bad and I have horrible headaches also. Plus some fever. I am taking the most gosh awful tasting cold med so that is even worse, LOL..Thank you for asking..Still considering offing myself, LOL...no sleep and just so tired..But it has to get better right, LOL
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Not to mention she gave it to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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09-03-2008, 01:00 PM
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Not to mention she gave it to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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did not, did not, did not, did not your midnight swimming gave it to me
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09-03-2008, 01:44 PM
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You two sharing meds again? 
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09-03-2008, 03:14 PM
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You two sharing meds again? |
Susie takes more. You can tell. SHe is the emotional one who hits people on the head. You will get used to her though. she is easy to control. even kind of zombie like at times
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09-03-2008, 04:01 PM
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Not sure Jules. It is in my chest really bad and I have horrible headaches also. Plus some fever. I am taking the most gosh awful tasting cold med so that is even worse, LOL..Thank you for asking..Still considering offing myself, LOL...no sleep and just so tired..But it has to get better right, LOL
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Stop Faking it!  Besides you can not off yourself, who else would I pick on?
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09-03-2008, 07:43 PM
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Tsk, tsk, you gals should have listened to me. I didn't get sick. ;-P
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09-03-2008, 08:11 PM
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Tsk, tsk, you gals should have listened to me. I didn't get sick. ;-P
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yeah you just slept. booooring
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09-03-2008, 09:54 PM
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yeah you just slept. booooring
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But I'm not sick so it was effective wasn't it? *hehe*
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09-03-2008, 10:34 PM
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But I'm not sick so it was effective wasn't it? *hehe*
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rub it in go ahead rub it in
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09-03-2008, 10:38 PM
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But I'm not sick so it was effective wasn't it? *hehe*
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I really should have listened to you GE. This stuff makes a vamp bite feel like a soft kiss, LOL...
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09-03-2008, 10:49 PM
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rub it in go ahead rub it in
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Would I do that??? 
Yep, I would! 
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09-03-2008, 10:52 PM
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Would I do that???
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and again and again and again till you got bored.
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09-03-2008, 11:00 PM
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09-03-2008, 11:07 PM
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hahahah and it is a wonderful thing........
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09-03-2008, 11:09 PM
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*cast spell on Sara, turns her into a toad*
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09-03-2008, 11:10 PM
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*cast spell on Sara, turns her into a toad*
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you are so good to me grneyes. you better send me an avatar with no warts. And here I thought you were a "good" witch.
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09-03-2008, 11:39 PM
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you are so good to me grneyes. you better send me an avatar with no warts. And here I thought you were a "good" witch.
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I am good, I'm very good at being a witch! *heehee* Don't worry, no warts and you look kind of cute as a toad.
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09-03-2008, 11:43 PM
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See how cure you are?
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09-04-2008, 09:24 PM
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I am just adorable. Maybe Joseph will like me more and take me to London with him in one of his valises.
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09-05-2008, 02:22 PM
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I am just adorable. Maybe Joseph will like me more and take me to London with him in one of his valises.
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Well I hope he puts you in there all in one piece! 
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09-05-2008, 06:31 PM
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Well I hope he puts you in there all in one piece! |
Well that would not be good. I might not make it. 
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10-14-2008, 10:08 AM
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Hey Sara darling LOL you need to clean out your private messages lol no one can send you a private message mailbox full
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10-14-2008, 02:43 PM
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that made me LOL!
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10-14-2008, 10:49 PM
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Reading this conversation was quite entertaining!!! Thanks guys!!! Seashell, I LOVE your last, and current avatars!!!!
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