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samanthajane13
10-16-2009, 01:22 AM
Wesson Attendance Center knows 17-year-old Ceara Sturgis is gay because she's never tried to hide it.

But when Sturgis — an honor student, trumpet player and goalie on the school's soccer team — wanted her senior photograph in a tuxedo used in the 2009-10 yearbook, school officials balked. Traditionally, female students dress in drapes and males wear tuxedos.

Now, the American Civil Liberties Union of Mississippi has gotten involved, issuing a demand letter to Principal Ronald Greer to publish the picture of Sturgis in the tuxedo. The ACLU says it's giving the school until Oct. 23 to respond before pursuing court action, said Kristy L. Bennett, the ACLU's legal director.

A secretary for Greer referred questions to Copiah County Schools Superintendent Rickey Clopton, who declined to comment on Thursday.

Sturgis said she should get to decide how she looks in the senior photo.

"I feel like I'm not important, that the school is dismissing who I am as a gay student and that they don't even care about me. All I want is to be able to be me, and to be included in the yearbook," Sturgis said in a statement.

Veronica Rodriguez, 47, said school officials are trying to force her daughter — who doesn't even own a dress — to appear more feminine.

"The tux is who she is. She wears boys' clothes. She's athletic. She's gay. She's not feminine," said Rodriguez during an interview Thursday at the ACLU office.

Rodriguez said Sturgis took her pictures over the summer instead of with the other students last year, but she used the same studio.

In August, Rodriguez said she received a letter from the school stating that only boys could wear tuxedos. Rodriguez said she met with assistant Superintendent Ronald Holloway who told her he didn't see regulations about the issue in the student handbook.

But when she talked with Greer, she said he told her it was his "conviction" that Sturgis wouldn't appear in the yearbook in a tuxedo.

Bennett said the teenager's constitutional rights are being violated. Bennett said similar cases, including same-sex prom couples and girls wearing tuxedos to proms, have been successfully challenged in court in other states. ACLU officials said they were unaware of any other constitutional disputes involving gay teens at Mississippi schools.

"You can't discriminate against somebody because they're not masculine enough or because they're not feminine enough. She's making an expression of her sexual orientation through this picture and that invokes First Amendment protection," Bennett said.

There's no state policy that deals with the yearbook photo issue, said state Department of Education spokesman Pete Smith.

The deadline for the photo to be accepted for the yearbook was Sept. 30. But advertisements for the publication are still being taken so Sturgis has time for her photo to be included, Bennett said.

Sturgis lives with her grandparents in Wesson, a town of about 1,700 founded during the Civil War in southwest Mississippi. The town's Web site said residents "pride ourselves on our quiet way of life."


http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091016/ap_on_re_us/us_lesbian_yearbook_flap

Marian Paroo
10-16-2009, 02:21 AM
I've been wanting to wear a tux for something ever since seeing Marlena Dietrich in one!!!

BeastofBears
10-16-2009, 10:40 AM
I've been wanting to wear a tux for something ever since seeing Marlena Dietrich in one!!!

She DID look great! There's something very sharp about a tux...

Let the young woman wear her tux! It's not like she's asking to be naked or something. A yearbook photo is a frozen moment in time. It shouldn't be a source of misery because you were forced into a mold. I would rather wear a tux than a "drape", too!

Marian Paroo
10-17-2009, 02:51 PM
We didn't wear drapes for the RHS class of '72, and lemme tell you, a tux would have been a lot more modest that the push up tops some of the hetrosexual girls were wearing!!!!

wind149
10-17-2009, 04:39 PM
I don't know why this has blown up to be such a big deal!! Let her wear what she wants for Christ's sakes!!! If she is comfortable in her own skin and prefers to dress like a boy, that is entirely her business!!! I remember some of the dresses that some people wore at my proms and I remember skin tight was all the rage and micro minis, no gowns for us at Brattleboro Union High!!! For my Junior, I wore a puffed sleeve knee length dress as I could not see me in a gown and it was a pretty shade of teal and I felt like a princess in it without having to wear a ball gown!! Senior prom it was a mini dress with cutouts on the side and that was made of satin and blue. Now this girl, who is a good student, not a trouble maker, a good athlete who just happens to be gay and I think there lies the big squawk. In the south even in today's world are not apt to accept gays and lesbians and I think the principal there is a homophobe even though he ain't gonna admit it!!!